A general practice team in Bournemouth have set up their own interesting take on a coffee morning to help address the growing issue of loneliness and isolation in the local community.
When Marie* from Charminster in Bournemouth, found herself living alone after her husband passed away, she found it hard to get out and meet people, “The house felt quiet, I was on my own and I was finding it difficult to get out by myself, I wanted company. I was invited me to come to this group by the social prescribing team and I’ve been coming ever since. I feel like I belong again.”
Using the concept of speed dating, Central Bournemouth Primary Care Network are running a monthly speed friending group at their room at the East Way Clinic, Charminster as a way of helping people create friendships.
Andrea Dawson, the social prescriber who created and runs this monthly event said, “The idea is that people who come along to the group get to spend time getting to know everyone there. Every month is a different theme.
“We have run sessions about different traditions and cultures, December’s theme was pantomime. It’s a bit of fun. We spend time playing games and chatting, and then arrange the room so that people can move around and sit with someone else. I have a bell I ring to signal it’s time to change places and meet someone new.
“We believe that no one should have to face loneliness or isolation alone. By starting up this group, we wanted to create a supportive network that helps individuals form lasting connections and combat the negative effects of isolation.”
“Andrea has been such a great support. I’ve met lots of people now and it’s all down to her. She is brilliant.” said Marie, “I come every month and I also go to regular coffee mornings. I’ve made some real friendships.”
Likewise, Debbie* was looking for a way to meet new people in the community and build local connections following a series of heart attacks which left her struggling to work as she used to. “Andrea has supported me in many ways in her role as social prescriber, when she said that I should come along to this group too I decided it might be a good way to meet people. It’s a fun group, I enjoy it.”
Dr Ben Sharland, Clinical Director at Central Bournemouth PCN said: “Loneliness and isolation have become pressing concerns in today’s fast-paced and digitally connected world. Many individuals, regardless of age or background, experience feelings of loneliness and disconnection, which can have detrimental effects on their mental and physical well-being. We are delighted that our team have taken proactive steps to create a safe and supportive space for those seeking companionship and connection.”
Central Bournemouth Primary Care Network is a group of general practices including James Fisher Medical Centre, Moordown Medical Centre, St Albans and The Panton Practice. Many practices and PCNs run or are linked to social groups and patients should ask at their practice to see what is available to them, or check their practice Facebook page.
*patient names have been changed to remain anonymous
